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My ex moved on so fast. How can I overcome the pain?

09.06.2025 19:42

My ex moved on so fast. How can I overcome the pain?

Simply put, because they have been prepared and you weren't.

So, don't try to compete with them.

You both are on polar opposites of the scale.

How one of San Francisco's most successful new chains 'just kind of happened' - SFGATE

What they do doesn't matter and it's completely irrelevant to your healing process, though it’s valid to hate and judge them harshly for leaving the way they did.

This happened long or shortly before they physically left.

I.e. you thought that you had the perfect deal whereas they had already made up their mind and just weren't as emotionally invested in it as you were.

What is the moral stance on lying? Can you provide examples of when it is appropriate or inappropriate to lie? Does the Bible address this issue?

This is why comparing yourself to them in terms of the healing process isn't going to help you in any way, shape or form.

This is why you can't expect them to feel anything close to what you're feeling right now, because you and them are on a completely different stage in the healing process.

And during this process, they either started seeing someone new who they planned to secure as their rebound option or were busy creating their post-breakup plan.

Why is watching a man and a woman have sex considered perverted? It's how we all got here, it's what we do, I say if you want to watch porn then carry on!

On their side, there has been a process of emotionally and mentally checking out while you were still together and while you were under the impression that everything is cool.

Instead, focus on taking care of, solving and healing what you are experiencing right now.